A Must For This Is A Happy Marriage. Has always been the virginity of a woman who was his most prized possession. Throughout history, we have read about the cultures of the world a high value on female virginity AA. But times change, and a growing number of young men and women, sex is not the kind of taboo that it once was. And a large part of the burden of our latest generation is sex before marriage a reality of our time. In fact, these days, couples who are in a relationship, have no qualms sexually intimate with another, even if there is no guarantee that the relationship in marriage to end. When it comes to the matter of marriage, especially in the case of arranged marriages, a woman with an active sexual history, however, continues to raise eyebrows and gossip games. So what is the big deal about virginity and how this mentality make life difficult for many women?
According to Dr. Mahindra Vatsa, consultant gynecologist and sex, this mentality is largely due to our traditional values are deeply rooted in us. “One of the most common questions I still is” How do I know my boyfriend or girlfriend is still a virgin? “The only answer to these questions I have is that there is no way to know,” says Dr. Watsa. According to him, the man is swelled from the family of ego and that leads to this kind of unrealistic demands. How, then, not our traditional culture does not prevent, couples have sex before marriage? “If a couple is engaged, it’s like a marriage license so that they feel they can do something,” he said.
“It’s really no big deal. But I still have people who say that they do not complain bleed on the first night, so I believe them. The truth is no longer a virgin, that the presence of rupture of the hymen (causing bleeding) is a sure sign of good virginity. Some women are born without it, there are people for whom it is so elastic that never breaks while for some it is so fragile that a little more intense activity can is broken without their knowledge. It is simply not accessible when a girl is still virgin or not, by themselves, when they learn to become pregnant or if he admits to sex, “says Dr. Rajan Bhonsle sexologist.
He goes on to add that in a relationship when a couple is to function properly, it is important that the couple worried about the virtues of trust and honesty. “If a woman admits past will not be made active sexually reproach. The fact that there are still admit that, even if it could have very well hidden, it means that she is honest, and that’s all what you need companies, “he said.
Grown for some men, but especially in very orthodox families or old-fashioned common families are the family members that tend to influence their decision. “In many of these families is like falling in love or sex before marriage equal the girl to be fat. His reasons these girls reject, therefore, is that after the wedding with daughter continue the same behavior,” says Dr. Bhonsle.
Commenting on the issue, the actress Sophie Choudhry said. “Most people in Mumbai and other cities do not expect to be their partner to young women because India has a dramatic change in the 10 underwent recent years is not India, the closed society of the time. The modern Indian youth to work independently and makes his own decisions in life. It is a change that the people of India had to adapt themselves in. However, we can not ignore the existence of enormous pressure on girls from small towns and the most conservative still play an important factor families and virginity, when it comes to your wedding. ”
An intact hymen is not a sure sign of virginity.
The hymen can not break sexual activities such as intensive sports, dancing woman, sitting astride on two wheels, etc.
It is not necessary that a virgin bleed the first time having sex. In fact, it going to do in the statistics, only 42 percent of women.
With recent advances in medical technology, a plastic surgeon easily rebuilds a layer of fabric to resemble the hymen (called the procedure Hymenoplasty).
Remember, virginity and chastity are not the only measures that a happy marriage, honesty, and trust are basically the most important qualities that should the pair.
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